Me and the bf have been pretty serious for quite a while now. We are living together, we share kitchen duty, he even refers to himself as my dogs “daddy”. So, naturally we have been easing into the next step of our relationship…getting engaged. He is just easing into it a little slower than I prefer. We have been to look at rings, we’ve discussed locations, he even told his big mouth friend that he’s got the rock! What is the hold up?
Is proposing like jumping out of a plane? The longer you stand at the edge, the bigger rush you get when you finally do jump? Except the girl waiting on the ground below is getting pretty anxious and not any younger might I add. What’s going on up there!
I’m trying not to be to pushy. Although, I have dropped some subtle hints. I let him know why schedule every week as not to interfere with a proposal. I paint my nails in front of him every night and casually mention how “something just seems missing”. Yeah, I know that one isn’t so subtle. But, come on! He’s got the ring, so rip the band aid off and ask already!
If my hints get any more obvious, Ill be wearing a veil to bed. Then he will be heading for the hills and I will be looking for a new future fiancé.
Guys, this is the perfect time you can have sex guilt-free. You don’t have to worry about the awkward phone call the next day or the obligation of making sure you don’t hurt her feelings because the girl that does vacation sex right doesn’t want to hear from you after.
If you are able to do this right, you’ll be able to get in, get off, and get out.
……and the NUMBER ONE rule when sexationing:
What are your rules for vacation sex?
We lived another day and the Mayans were wrong. Now you have to worry about fielding the “when are you going to settle down?” and “are you sure you aren’t a lesbian?” questions from your relatives at Christmas dinner. Maybe you want this holiday season to be your last as a single girl or you just want to find a quick bang for New Years Eve!
Our friends at The Date Report blog have compiled the ultimate survival guide to dating and relationships during the holidays. It includes everything from
Ways to Get Back Into the Dating Scene This Holiday Season to
New Year’s Eve: Good First Date or Bad First Date?
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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Breaking up really is hard to do. Especially when it never ends. I’m not talking about the indecisive, on and off, are we or aren’t we break up. I’m referring to the significant other that just won’t move on.